Spice It Up!

Is your relationship growing stale? Dr. Arlene G. Krieger, a board-certified clinical sexologist and licensed marriage counselor in Boca Raton, may have the answer. Krieger, recognized by the Miami-Dade County Office of the Mayor as a “Woman of Distinction,” offers the following sex-pert advice.

Be spontaneous
“The element of surprise really can make the ride worthwhile,” Krieger says. “Doing something unexpected invites romance and desire. It also lets your partner know that you ‘get’ them.”

Be yourself
Opening up can be the most romantic thing about an intimate evening, especially if it’s the man who is opening up. Showing emotion, something most men try to avoid, is really sexy to a woman. “Expressing your level of care is very authentic and romantic.”

Be playful
Interpreted literally or not, playfulness is a turn on for both sexes. A person who isn’t uptight about having fun often is viewed as sexy. Change routines in all aspects of your life, not just in the bedroom, to generate freshness in the relationship.

Be considerate
Make time for your partner, whether it’s having a conversation or having a picnic in the backyard. The gift of time doesn’t cost anything—and it can be the best present of all.
Be romantic

“Couples must realize that romance is an absolute,” Krieger says. “You have to re-create the relationship on a daily basis. Yes, it’s work. But so is getting dressed in the morning and making breakfast.”

Excerpt from February issue of "boca magazine"

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